Here’s a sobering truth: most law firm marketing is built around what the firm wants to say, not how clients actually decide. That disconnect is costly. If your marketing isn’t aligned with the way prospective clients really decide, it doesn’t matter how polished your campaigns look, you’ll lose business to firms that get it right.
Prospective clients may be somewhat impressed by a long list of practice areas or decades of combined experience. But that isn’t the real selling point in choosing an attorney. Instead, they are scanning Google results, reading reviews, and judging whether you seem trustworthy enough to call.
If your law firm marketing strategy is not aligned with that reality, you could be pouring money into polished campaigns that look professional but quietly fail to bring in clients. In this article, we’ll break down how people really choose a law firm, where most firms get it wrong, and how to realign your marketing so it resonates with what clients care about most.
Choosing an attorney is very rarely a rational, step-by-step decision. For most people, it happens in a moment of stress: an accident, a dispute, a major life change. In that moment, they aren’t carefully comparing credentials or analyzing legal terminology. They are looking for signs of trust, credibility, and empathy.
Many firms assume that prospective clients select a lawyer the same way a hiring committee evaluates résumés: carefully comparing credentials, scanning long bios, and weighing practice area experience before making a decision. On paper, that seems logical, but in reality, it is not how most clients behave. This holds true whether it’s an individual suddenly served with divorce papers or a business deciding whether to pursue litigation. At the end of the day, the choice is made by a person under pressure, or increasingly, by an AI-driven search tool designed to mimic how people think and decide.
Here is the difference between the process firms assume and the process clients actually take:
This gap between perception and reality is where most law firm marketing strategies fall short. The firms that continue marketing to an imagined, rational buyer risk missing the emotional triggers and digital touchpoints that actually influence decisions.
When people search for how clients choose a law firm, they’re asking: “What really matters in that decision?” Too often, firms get this wrong because they market to themselves rather than to prospective clients. They forget a critical truth: you are not your own Ideal Client Profile (ICP). What impresses attorneys (résumés, accolades, technical jargon) is rarely what reassures a stressed-out client making a high-stakes decision. When firms confuse their own perspective with that of their ICP, they end up highlighting the wrong things and creating a disconnect that costs them business.
Here are the most common disconnects between what firms emphasize and what clients actually look for. In regards to your own marketing, ask yourself which side of these you are on:
Too often, firms market to impress themselves rather than to reassure clients. Bridging this gap is the key to creating a law firm marketing strategy that resonates with buyers and actually drives decisions.
So how exactly do you bridge that gap? The key is to stop marketing based on what you want to say and start aligning your efforts with how clients actually move through their decision process. This is where the concept of the buyer’s journey comes in.
At this stage, a prospective client is just realizing they have a problem and is beginning to look for information. They are not ready to choose a firm yet, they are simply trying to understand their situation and what options might exist. Your goal is to show up early in that search and provide helpful, accessible content that answers their first questions.
Some of the most effective ways to do this include:
Imagine a client is comparing two firms. One website is filled with dense legal jargon and long attorney bios. The other highlights clear answers to common questions, real client testimonials, and case stories that show how the firm has solved problems like theirs. The second instantly feels more approachable and trustworthy.
That is exactly what the consideration stage is about. Once a client understands their problem, the next step is deciding who can help them. They are weighing their options and looking for reassurance that your firm is credible, approachable, and trustworthy. Credentials may play a role, but proof from real clients and clear demonstrations of expertise carry far more weight.
Effective ways to build trust during this stage include:
By the time a client reaches this stage, they know they need help, they know it comes in the form of a lawyer, and they have already narrowed their options on which law firm to choose. What matters most now is making it easy and reassuring to take the next step. If your website is confusing, your forms are long, or your calls to action are buried, you risk losing them to a competitor who feels more accessible.
Ways to support the decision stage include:
When your law firm marketing strategy maps content and messaging to each stage of the buyer’s journey, you meet clients where they are rather than expecting them to sift through credentials and jargon.
We’ve already touched on channels like your website and social media, but it’s worth going a bit deeper. These are not just boxes to tick, they are the places where clients form their strongest impressions and ultimately decide whether to trust your firm.
Here’s the myth vs. reality of the four key channels:
When these channels work together, they reinforce one another. Someone might find you in a search, read your reviews, scan your website, and then follow you on social media. Each touchpoint nudges them closer to making contact. Aligning your law firm digital marketing with these buyer-driven channels ensures you are not just visible, but also credible where it matters most.
Knowing the theory is one thing, but how do you know if your marketing is actually aligned with how clients choose a law firm? A simple self-assessment can reveal where gaps exist.
Ask yourself these questions:
If you answered “no” to any of these, your law firm marketing strategy is likely out of step with how your prospective clients are choosing an attorney. Even a handful of small fixes can make your marketing feel more aligned almost immediately.
What we’ve seen works best: Talk to recent clients and ask what made them choose you. Their answers often reveal what really matters.
The biggest gap in most law firm digital marketing is not budget or creativity, it’s perspective. Firms often focus on what they want to showcase rather than how clients actually make decisions. By reframing your law firm’s marketing strategy around the client’s journey, you put energy into the places that matter most.
To recap:
When your law firm’s digital marketing reflects these client priorities, every dollar works harder. But when it doesn’t, you risk polished campaigns that get attention but fail to convert, leaving space for competitors to step in.
At the end of the day, clients are not choosing a law firm the way most attorneys assume. They are choosing based on trust, clarity, and proof that you understand their needs. If your marketing does not reflect that reality, you risk looking polished but being passed over.
The good news is that alignment is within reach. By adjusting your law firm digital marketing to match the way prospective clients actually make decisions, you can attract the right clients, build stronger relationships, and create sustainable growth for your firm.
But the opposite is also true. If your marketing continues to focus on what you want to say rather than what clients need to hear, you’ll keep investing in campaigns that look good but fail to convert, while competitors who align with buyer behavior pull ahead.
If you are ready to close the gap between how you market and how clients are choosing an attorney, our team at BroadVision Marketing is here to help. We specialize in guiding law firms to build strategies that align with today’s buyer behavior, so you don’t just keep up, you lead. Contact us today to start building a strategy that resonates with buyers and delivers real results.